Bondage

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What exactly is bondage?

Bondage is the act of being bound, tied or restrained for sexual pleasure. Often with bondage rope or tape a partner is bound either to an object such as a bed or cage or they are tied up giving limited access to move such as when a person is hog-tied.

Why do people enjoy being tied or restrained?

This is a subjective question and no two answers are the same but many people refer to the feeling of being in control or losing control. Others find the idea of being bound and used liberating. They no longer need to worry about pleasing their partner in a traditional way and can focus solely on the pleasure they are receiving.

Everything you wanted to know about bondage but were afraid to ask

Maybe you have recently discovered an interest in BDSM, Bondage or S&M or maybe you have always had kinky fantasies but never knew how to approach the subject with a sexual partner.

This is a common problem. There is still a taboo surrounding rough or dominant sex although it is an extremely common fetish and enjoyed by loads of couples regularly. You may have worries that your partner will think you are some kind of sex crazed monster or deviant or, you might be concerned that your partner will go off sex if they think they cannot please you in the bedroom. Fear not, you may be pleasantly surprised by you partners reaction to trying something new in the bedroom. Here are some ideas to help you approach the subject in a subtle way.

1. Try watching a movie that includes bondage. If you are couple who enjoys watching adult movies together, then lucky you! Try selecting something with a bondage theme and checking out your partners reaction. If you are not comfortable with suggesting a full-blown adult movie, there is always the old faithful – Fifty Shades. Settle down with a glass of wine and everyone’s favorite, accessible S&M movie then casually suggest that it might be fun to try some bondage or roleplay.

2. Try introducing light hairpulling or restraint during sex. If you partner reacts favorably to this, you can suggest something slightly more adventurous like tying their hands to the bed or gentle spanking. You will be surprised what this can lead to.

3. Be open. Plain and simple. You don’t need to go all in saying you want a full on BDSM sex session. Simply saying you would love to tie you partners hands during sex or how much it would turn you on to be held down is a great way to approach the subject without appearing to be some kind of depraved beast. Often, it helps by explaining the pleasure comes from an enjoyment of being in control or losing control rather than causing any pain or humiliation.

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